The Ultimate Guide to Loving Your Partner Daily

From the open rate of my little experiment this week Monday, It’s safe to it was a success.

I’m considering increasing the rate you see me in your inbox, but I don’t want to be too forward.

So I’m putting it up for a vote in the community. You can decide here 

May the best majority win.

Also, I know some of you who wanted to book a slot in my weekly coaching sessions had problems doing so. I apologise. The issue has been fixed…or at least I think it has. The point is you can go ahead and schedule our “alone time” and I’ll be in touch.

Those issues aside, Today I’d be sharing my proven 4-Step process you can infuse into your daily routine to have a blissful relationship with your boo.

Ironically, I came up with them using the letters L.O.V.E.

Let’s begin!!!

MY TWO CENTS 🧠

L
The ‘L’ stands for ‘Learning.’ It would be best if you learned things about your partner. No one stays the same forever. Not you or your romantic partner. You must continually learn from your partner how to satisfy their emotional needs and fill their love bank.
Human beings tend to grow and change over time. The things you like now may not be the same things you’d like in a couple of months or years in the future. And the things you didn’t want nor like, you might find yourself developing a fondness for them as time goes on.
To love well this month and in years to come, take up the attitude of lifelong learning. Be prepared to learn about your partner consistently and continually.
Trust me, your relationship will thank you for it. You can do this by communicating with your partner. Talk to your significant other to know who they are and what they like and dislike. Know who your partner is, not who they were. Using old information — who your partner was in the past — can affect your relationship negatively. Relationships thrive using current information only.

O
The ‘O’ stands for ‘Ovation.’ Ovation means a sustained and enthusiastic show of appreciation. People will go to and thrive in places where they are constantly appreciated. Because we as humans perceive places, we are appreciated as places we are accepted.
In his memoir “I can’t make this up,” Kevin Hart stated something that resonates with me today. He said;

Never underestimate the human need for acceptance. Praise your partner for their actions and wins, no matter how little they may seem. The more you show your partner by your words and actions you appreciate them, the more they do things for you to enjoy, and the more they feel appreciated, the more they feel accepted.
Bashing your partner when they make a mistake will only allow resentment to creep in and destroy your relationship. Whenever your partner does something you don’t like or ought not to have done, you can bring it up in a non-threatening and loving manner. Choosing appreciation over criticism will do wonders for your relationship.

V
The ‘V’ stands for ‘Value’ or ‘Valuing’ your significant other.
According to the Oxford English dictionary, value as a verb means “to consider someone or something to be important or beneficial.”
The reason why I used this particular definition is that a verb is a word that shows action. Valuing your partner is something you constantly do, not something you feel. It means showing your significant other — with your words backed up by your actions — that they are essential and wanted in your life.
It means investing in them — investing your time, energy, and even resources for their wellbeing — being interested in them, acknowledging them publicly and privately, and loads more. A relationship where both partners feel valued by each other will thrive.

E
The ‘E’ stands for ‘Expression.’
The Oxford Dictionary defines expression as “the action of making known one’s thought or feelings.” Keyword “action.”
Your partner will not know you love them if you don’t express your love for them. The only way to express love for your partner is to love them with their love language and satisfy their emotional needs.
Everyone has a primary and secondary love language and five primary emotional needs that need to be met.
Until you speak your lovers’ love languages, and meet their emotional needs they’ll never truly feel or know they are loved by you.
Make it a duty to understand your partners’ love language(s), meet their emotional needs and express your love for them how they want to be loved, not how you think they ought to be loved. Doing this will make your relationship a blissful one.

COMMUNITY ANNOUNCEMENTS 📢

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YOUR PLAYBOOK 📕

1. Learn About Each Other Regularly
- Make time to talk with your partner about what they like and how they're changing.

- Listen carefully and ask questions to understand them better.

- Try to adapt to their changes and show you care about their growth.

2. Say Thank You and Be Nice
- Start each day by saying something nice about your partner.

- Look for chances to praise them during the day.

- Instead of criticizing, try to give helpful advice kindly.

3. Do Nice Things for Each Other
- Plan surprises or do things your partner likes.

- Spend time together doing fun stuff.

- Show everyone how much you care about your partner.

4. Find Out and Show Love the Way They Like
- Learn how your partner likes to be loved.

- Do things that make them feel special, like helping out or saying nice things.

- Check-in to make sure they feel loved the way you're showing it.

5. Talk About How Things Are Going
- Take time every week or month to think about how your relationship is going.

- Talk with your partner about what's good and what could be better.

- Be ready to change things to make each other happier.

HOW I ADD VALUE TO YOU 💎

I’d help you attract your ideal romantic partner and maintain a fulfilling relationship effortlessly with my 3-pronged approach;

My personalized 1-on-1 coaching program. It aims to show you how to vet prospective romantic partners properly and teach you the skills needed to effortlessly be the type of person that attracts the right kind of partner for you. You can indicate your interest here.

Sharing the secrets happy couples use to make their romantic relationship healthy, strong and successful via this FREE weekly email newsletter, my YouTube channel and other social media platforms I’m on. This approach is aimed to arm you with the right knowledge and insights to maintain your happy, healthy functional relationship with your partner. My username on all platforms is @chikeoranye. You can find me on these platforms: X, Facebook, Instagram, Threads, Bluesky, TikTok and LinkedIn.

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